"I just can't do it anymore," Jessica just said to me.

It's so disheartening. I thought it was meant to be a major part of our life together. But alas, she says she doesn't want to do it anymore. She's tired of blogging.

Truth be told, I can understand it. It's been a couple weeks since either of us blogged, and it's understandable why. We've been really stinking busy actually doing wedding stuff instead of talking about it.

We picked out stuff for the baskets we'll give our wedding party.

We designed and sent out invitations for the wedding party for our rehearsal dinner.

We designed our programs and double-checked a number of things.

We've continued to manage the RSVP list. (If you're one of the 60-some remaining, what are you waiting for? Better seats?)

We've shopped for bridesmaids shoes. (Well, "we" might be a bit extreme on that one.)

Now we're preparing for the ol' send-off from singledom, the bachelor and bachelorette party. (We're both preparing for massive hangovers, mine on Saturday and hers on Sunday.)

And we've made lists. Lots and lots of lists. My personal favorite was the list of lists we had to make. (Jessica's confession as she reads that: "We did do that.")

So here's the general update: We still love each other. And if you can still love one another after plotting out a wedding, well, you can make it through anything.

I know I'm looking forward to seeing folks on the 29th, particularly that beautiful gal walking down the aisle.